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Britney Spears may be a mega-wealthy famous global pop star, but even *her* relationship can be ruined by porn. (Or so it was recently reported…) ~~ See below…

    [Mirror] – “David Lucado ‘hooked up’ with Latina adult movie star Cali Lee back in August, according to TMZ.

    According to various porn sites Cali is aged 24 and just 5 ft tall.

    She has been in the industry since 2009 and is believed to have starred in just twenty scenes throughout her career, which apparently is not much for a porn star.

    … Earlier this year it was reported that Britney’s dad Jamie Spears bought the tape that allegedly shows David Lucado getting close to another woman behind the singer’s back, who has now being revealed as Cali after meeting her in a bar near Brit’s home.

    The star, 32, reportedly called time on her 18 month relationship after discovering the video was being shopped around Hollywood, claims TMZ.

    It’s thought Jamie Spears, who has been in control of her finances after a judge granted him a conservatorship following her breakdown in 2008, bought it for a substantial sum to make sure it never becomes public before showing it to her.”

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We feel for Britney and for all women whose partners are unfaithful to them because of porn fueling them to act out, whether it’s with non-industry women, or with the fantasy women in porn — in real life, via a webcam while performers are being paid by the minute, (which is increasingly more common), or just by fantasizing about and masturbating to “regular” porn on the Internet. (Yes, we consider that to be cheating, unless both partners know about it and agree to it happening and not being a violation of their fidelity to each other in their relationship.)

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READ THE FULL STORY BELOW AND FEEL FREE SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS. Thanks!

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/britney-spears-dumped-david-lucado-4182299#ixzz3CkAW4y4C

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READ Aaron’s story of how pornography addiction ruined his marriage and how learning the TRUTH about porn set him free. Also please don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE AND COMMENT! We will pass on a link to this post to Aaron so he can read your comments. 🙂

LEARNING THE TRUTH ABOUT THE HARMS OF PORNOGRAPHY SET ME FREE FROM MY ADDICTION

— By Aaron (41, trucker, U.S.)

Thanks for all you’re doing to fight off the porn industry. It’s absolutely amazing how blind we can be to the effects of pornography until our lives become damaged. I allowed myself to continue drifting into my porn addiction up until recently. I always figured I’d eventually “grow out” of it. I would set New Year’s resolutions year after year, thinking I could just indulge until that date and stop for good. I have been living a double life for over 20 years.

I married, got divorced, and have three girls. Ironically my wife got me started into my pornography addiction. For my 20th Birthday she bought me a one-year subscription to Playboy. She thought if I read the magazine it would help our sex life. But all it did was make me resent my wife for not looking like the Playboy models. Our sex life was boring and I eventually found more pleasure in masturbating to the Playboy photos. I found pornography to be a convenience because it was all about my own satisfaction rather than having to worry about pleasing my wife. We divorced after eight years of marriage because we were both just bored with each other.

So I started buying more hardcore magazines. Playboy wouldn’t do it for me any more. I remained hooked because of the lie that there will always be something better around the corner. Just check out one more website or just check out this one last porn star. There was always something new to be curious about.

I have always known that pornography is wrong. But my problem has been not having an understanding of WHY it is wrong. Somewhere in my mind I could reason that since I’m not the one committing the acts on the set nor did I set the stage or hire the performers, somehow it was okay. My addiction progressed to me hiring prostitutes and having sex in oriental spas. I just craved sex any way I could get it.

The one thing that broke this cycle was when I began surfing through anti-porn sites, starting with your AntiPornographyBlog channel on YouTube that featured Sasha Grey’s interview with Tyra Banks. Discovering what it’s really like to be a porn star got me to the point where I don’t care to re-enact their experience anymore.

Part of my addiction was my envy of porn stars. I envied them because I thought they were really living it up, making all kinds of money while enjoying nonstop sex. By visiting anti-porn sites I could see that they actually live a miserable life. I didn’t know that so many of them have died of suicide, overdoses, murder, and AIDS. I also didn’t realize how many are abused and underpaid.

The more I thought about it, the more I realized it was affecting my personal life as well. Every time I’d come home to my family I couldn’t wait to get back on the road so I could indulge in porn again. I have also been lying about my finances because I couldn’t admit I was spending money on my addiction.

So here I am, taking it one day at a time. I don’t view pornography anymore. To occupy my time I read through anti-porn sites and I find more time to exercise. I could go to a porn site right now, but I choose not to. Again, thanks for helping me open my eyes to the truth about pornography.

STORY LINK:

http://www.antipornography.org/harm_stories.html#138535

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Please check out and LIKE the helpful Facebook page Your Brain In the Cybersex Jungle, which addresses porn’s effects on people’s brains! It also addresses how porn can cause erectile dysfunction in teens and adults and much more! It has TONS of great content for anyone who is interested in leaning about how porn consumption affects the user, especially how it negatively affects young people in countless different ways.

https://www.facebook.com/CybersexJungle

The name of the page refers to the weekly radio show by Gary Wilson of the excellent website Your Brain on Porn. You can learn more about that show below, including when and where it is available on the Internet:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/content/your-brain-cybersex-jungle-radio-show

We’re sure Gary would appreciate some positive feedback about all of his important and very helpful educational efforts, so please feel free to to leave some for him. Thanks! 🙂

https://www.facebook.com/CybersexJungle

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Check out this great poster by FightTheNewDrug.org!

“Porn kills love. Porn decreases your interest in real relationships and increases your appetite for more porn”

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VIDEO: Who Ya Gonna Call? PORNBUSTERS! :-)

Here’s a fun video from our friends at the Pornbusters channel at YouTube. Check it and feel free to let it inspire you to become a PORNBUSTER yourself! 🙂 Also check out the lyrics below and some of Pornbusters’ other videos! (Playlist embedded below, and link to playlist provided.) ENJOY! 🙂
 

 
WHO YA GONNA CALL? PORNBUSTERS!

When you surf the web
and find illegal crap
Who ya’re gonna tell?
PORNBUSTERS!

When it’s YouTube sex
Stuff you wanna flag
Who ya gonna tell?

I’m no victim of porn
I don’t buy into porn

You see a woman raped
Whether real or staged
Who you’re gonna tell?
PORNBUSTERS!

Porn ain’t no fantasy
It’s all reality
Give a damn and watch
PORNBUSTERS!

I’m no pornified man
and I’m proud of who I am

If you’re all alone
don’t get trapped in porn
Just call….
PORNBUSTERS!

I don’t care about porn
What I really want is make love
A ridiculous thing to wear!
YEAH YEAH YEAH YEAH!

Who ya gonna join?
PORNBUSTERS!
If you feel like porn and you’re all alone and desperate you better call
PORNBUSTERS!

Let me tell you something:
Porn busting makes you feel good

Why would you waste your time with porn
When it makes you want more and more?
Just call!

Who ya gonna call?…

VIDEO URL: http://youtu.be/Yw82BcLMtmE

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PLAYLIST OF PORNBUSTERS VIDEOS: 
 

 
PLAYLIST URL:

http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLF9520C3CD630EBEF

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MUST WATCH VIDEO: “ALL ABOUT BDSM SADOMASOCHISM **INFORMATIVE!!**” – by R-luv of StarrPowerWomen YouTube

PLEASE WATCH this thought-provoking video below on the very serious harms of sadomasochism, created by our friend “R-Luv” at the StarrPowerWomen channel at YouTube. It includes a very powerful original poem written and read by R-luv, which is also posted below, as well as lots of informative content demonstrating how harmful, dangerous and sometimes DEADLY BDSM can be.

Please note that the majority of pornography is now sadomasochistic, and that the violent, risky and degrading BDSM scenarios that are said to be “just acting” in porn, (but which are sometimes very real), are often lived out IN REAL LIFE on prostituted, trafficked and raped women and children, as well as on the pressured and coerced female partners of sadistic porn-addicted and porn-fueled men.




MUST READ POETRY AND INFO FROM VIDEO DESCRIPTION:

R-luv Spoken Word Poetry on topic of brutality in BDSM sexual assault crimes like the murder of Brittany Killgore RIP…

I’m not down for this pain & pleasure trend
I like a man that’s just plain genuine
It sounds like villains who make pain their pleasure whatever happen to simple love & cherish
what’s up with all the whips & chains & high risks when I would rather settle for a passionate kiss
why is torture yearned for instead of love
I rather just have a hug
I don’t need to choke I don’t need to act like a lowlife animal
treat me like a lady plain & simple….

So don’t let no man make you go on all fours
there’s a war of respect ragin for all women
stand up speak out for our mute victimized dehumanized souls
may brutality cease
God bless you…Peace

♥Hearts out!!
Written by R-luv@StarrPowerWOMEN

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Brittany Kilgore BDSM murder news story:

“Brittany Killgore murder suspects killed to satisfy sexual fetishes, documents say”

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-57475522-504083/brittany-killgore-murder-suspects-killed-to-satisfy-sexual-fetishes-documents-say/

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BDSM B&D = Bondage & Discipline S&M = SADISM & Masochism (Dominance & submission)

As “Fifty Shades of Grey” has made popular headlines you must be informed of facts concerning ALL ABOUT BDSM SADOMASOCHISM!!

THE RISKS OF BDSM….

BDSM activity, even where clearly consensual, can be and frequently is prosecuted under state criminal laws dealing with assault, aggravated assault, sexual assault or sexual abuse. Such criminal prosecution can arise in various circumstances, including:

— The BDSM “scene” turns out to be more intense or painful or harmful than the submissive participant anticipated, and she or he goes to the police.
— Injury is caused that is sufficiently serious or sufficiently visible that it is brought to the attention of the police by an observer, by hospital personnel or by a friend or relative of the submissive participant.
— The police raid a BDSM event and observe conduct that they interpret as unlawful.
A BDSM relationship ends, leaving the submissive partner with bad feelings, and he or she complains to the police about assault or abuse.
— Someone with a grudge against a participant in the BDSM scene or relationship makes a complaint to the police.
— Or pictures, videos, emails, film or sound recordings of BDSM conduct somehow come into the hands of the police.

Video edited by R-luv@StarrPowerWOMEN with ***INFORMATIVE!!*** RESEARCH from “Law & Order SVU” BDSM Episodes, Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN), News Events, R-luv Spoken Word Poetry & MORE.. Thanks4watching ♥Hearts out!!

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Please don’t forget to like, comment on, and share this post and the video to help spread the word about the harms of sadomasochism and pornography, and to support the cause. And please subscribe to R-Luv’s StarrPowerWomen channel, which has some other great videos, including ones on the harms of pornography and sex trafficking. Thanks! 🙂

http://www.youtube.com/user/StarrPowerWOMEN

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YOUTUBE CHANNELS: AntiPornographyBlog ~~ AntiPornographyOrg ~~ SayNOtoProstitution ~~ ENDSexTrafficDEMAND ~~ PornAddictionHelp ~~ SayNOtoSadomasochism ~~
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MUST WATCH: Gail Dines presentation of “How Porn Creates the John: Porn, Trafficking and the Social Construction of Masculinity”

Please check out and share this extremely powerful and informative new video of a presentation by Gail Dines of Stop Porn Culture on how pornography constructs the sexuality of boys and young men to become Johns.

 



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YOUTUBE CHANNELS: AntiPornographyBlog ~~ AntiPornographyOrg ~~ SayNOtoProstitution ~~ ENDSexTrafficDEMAND ~~ PornAddictionHelp ~~ SayNOtoSadomasochism ~~
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