Please watch and share our powerful interview with LeNair Xavier on what’s wrong with prostitution. LeNair discusses the harms of being a “rentboy” or male “escort.”
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It takes a lot of courage and integrity for a gay or bisexual man to speak out against prostitution in the gay community because it is such an accepted type of behavior. In fact it is, unfortunately — as LeNair points out in the video — almost a rite of passage!
In the video LeNair recites his powerful poem “No Joy with a Rentboy,” which addresses his brief relationship with a male “escort.” The full text of the poem is below, along with the rest of the video description, that contains many helpful links.
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NO JOY WITH A RENTBOY
– by LeNair Xavier
When you first told me what you do
My first thought was to say we’re through
But then I tried to not be close-minded
As I live an eyebrow-raising life, too
Now, the time has come to be sincere
Facing the facts that are so damn clear
No more denial blinding my eyes
To how what you do is a cancer to both our lives
I don’t trust your head
Nor do I trust your bed
For I’m realizing how much DNA
Your one and only mattress has been fed
Why does my lack of trust surprise you
When so many johns wear your cum?
But then you try saying we have a home
Claiming that I’m the one
You can wash your in-call sheets 1,000 times
You can take 1,000 showers
It won’t erase how the essence of your johns
Has heart-draining, lingering powers
On that out-call, was I really on your mind?
Or was that just another line
Like the ones you tell your clients
So you can make another dime?
That’s why I can’t trust your heart
For it’s so often in the dark
So you can do the deed, then spew your seed
But I can see your soul is nowhere near freed
You are living a life bound in tightening chains
Crushing your heart behind that wall
But with all the drug and booze you do to get numb
Even with my care, that wall won’t fall
It is now politically INcorrect to say
One’s decision is based on moral judgments
Well, f*ck political correctness!
For here moral judgment shows good sense
See, the so-called “service” you provide
Is for the weak and socially inept
Sex is about our bodies joining for a soul connection
And how you sell it gives your spirit light to Death
So you can’t be trusted
And now, I’m disgusted
Our deceptions to ourselves
Have now been busted
If this is me living with a closed mind
At least, I will later smile and do fine
For I’m seeing there is no joy with a rentboy
Except the FAKE one paid in cash for time
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(WARNING: GRAPHIC SEXUAL CONTENT)
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